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Motema — Match With Awareness

Real connections at real venues. Health filters. Multiple modes.

✨ Let's make dating safe again!
Numerous
Health-Conscious Members
100m
Venue Geofence Radius
Multiple Ways
To Match & Connect

Why Choose Us

A dating app designed for real connections

Health-Based Filters

Use verified health check results as advanced filters to ensure safety, inclusivity, and compatibility—while keeping the experience open to everyone.

Real-Venue Connections

Geofenced discovery within 100m of venues. See who's there, send treats, and build real momentum.

Multiple Matching Modes

Choose your path: standard way, double dates, take me out, or compatibility questions. Every connection type welcomed.

Intent-Driven Connections

For those here to truly date, not just talk. Smart chat rules turn matches into real plans—or natural goodbyes within 30 days.

Three Additional Ways to Match

Meet the way that feels right for you

Compatibility Mode

Answer custom questions before matching. For the picky—deep compatibility checks ensure fit.

  • Custom intake forms
  • Values alignment
  • Serious intentions

Take Me Out Mode

Skip the small talk. Set your first date venue, time, and availability. Direct & decisive.

  • Skip the chat games
  • Real-world plans first
  • Time & place set

Double Date Mode

Like someone as usual—but with a twist. Before liking, you can add up to three friends. If you match, their friend must match with one of yours for the date to go live.

  • One main match between you two
  • Up to three friends invited
  • Their friend pairs with one of yours

Friend Recommendation Network

Subtle matchmaking powered by real connections

Direct Friend Recommendation

Know two single friends who might click? Add their names and phone numbers. If both have your number saved, the app privately recommends them to each other.

  • You know both people personally
  • Both have your number saved
  • Private and mutual discovery

Mutual Connection Recommendation

When you know one single person and a friend knows another, you can team up to recommend them. The app confirms that both introducers know each other through their phone contacts before privately suggesting the two singles to each other.

  • Two friends collaborate on a match
  • Introducer links verified via contacts
  • Suggestions stay private and authentic

Privacy & Authenticity

Recommendations blend seamlessly with regular matches, so no one knows if a suggestion came from friends or the app itself. Users can turn off friend-based recommendations anytime in settings.

  • No visible difference between app and friend suggestions
  • Full control in privacy settings
  • Trust built on verified social circles

Smart Chat Rules

Real momentum, real timelines

24-Hour First Message

Last to match has 24 hours to break the ice. No pressure, but momentum counts.

24h
Limit

3-Day Response Window

Got a message? Respond within 3 days. New messages don't reset the timer—keep it moving.

3 days
Limit

30-Day Chat Expiry

Chats expire after 30 days. Time to meet or move on. 14 days for double dates and take me out modes.

30 days
Limit

More Smart Rules

Likes disabled after 8+ messages or 3+ unstarted conversations in your turn
Max 15 active messages before limits kick in
Expired chats archived for 2 weeks, then auto-deleted
Restore with a Flower to extend for 30 more days

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Health checks • Real venues • Real connections • Available on iOS & Android